Spring is here and love is in the air! Flowers are blooming, trees are turning green again, birds are building their nests and we all naturally become more interested in love, sex and romance. With longer, lighter and brighter days, you have a spring in your step as you start to think about new beginnings.
Are you ready for new love? It may be you could do with a little “spring cleaning” to draw in the love you want.
Take a look at how you can de-clutter and prepare YOU for new and true love now.
1. Your Mind
Are you wishing, dreaming, waiting and longing for love?
You can go for years wishing and dreaming. Like most of us, you were probably brought up to believe in fairytales – that one day (if you wait long enough) your prince will come and you will live happily ever after!
When looking for love, there is a call for a new mindset. Rather than wishing, you get on a mission to attract the love you want. To do this you give up blaming anyone else for your plight and you take complete 1000% responsibility to create the relationship of your dreams. You become willing to do whatever it takes for love.
So instead of passively waiting for love, decide to become your very best YOU and be on a mission to magnetize the love of your life now!
2. Your Confidence
We’ve all heard the saying “You are what you believe you are.” Your beliefs actually run your love life. So if you are walking around thinking you’re not good enough, are not lovable or don’t deserve love, then guess what? You will probably meet men who don’t think you’re good enough either.
A confident, radiant woman who knows her worth is incredibly attractive to a man.
Start to catch those negative voices and begin telling your self what you would like a man to tell you; that you’re beautiful, loveable and so worthy of love.
3. Your Heart
Are you still pining over an ex? Is there someone in your life that you are calling a “friend” but you are secretly hoping that you will get back together?
When you want to attract new love but you are still thinking about an old love, you give out a confused love signal! It’s vital that you are freed up from any old loves so that your new love can come to you.
You may also have an ex-love who is no longer in your life but you still have feelings for him and secretly find yourself comparing him to new men you meet.
It’s time to be honest with yourself, let the old love go if necessary, learn as much as possible from the experience and carry it forward into your new relationship.
Get clear of that old energy now and go towards the love of your life.
4. Your Body
Do you think that you’re too old, too fat or not attractive enough to meet someone? Are you telling yourself that no one could ever love you because your hair is too frizzy, your stomach is too fat or your eyes are too small?
Your true love will fall in love with all of YOU and will love and accept the whole package. But you have to love and accept yourself first.
If there are things you want to change, do so because you love yourself so because you love yourself so much that you’re worth it, rather than because you think no one will love you if you don’t.
Start seeing yourself in the way that your soul mate will see you – as a beautiful, radiant and lovable woman!
5. Your Home
Part of preparing for your true love is looking at your home and environment. That’s not to say that your new love is going to move in with you right away or that you need to rush things before the time is right. Rather, what you are doing here is symbolic. By preparing yourself on every level, including your environment, you create an energy that says “I’m ready for my soul mate now!”
You want to create a feeling of “togetherness” and a welcoming space for your true love, even if you don’t think you will continue to live where you are now once you meet him.
Here are some tips:
- Your Bedroom should be a warm, romantic space, free from office equipment or old love-letters and gifts from your exes
- Create pairs of things: pairs of candles, a pair of night-lamps, a pair of coffee-mugs
- Clear out a drawer or cupboard to make some space for his belongings
- Put up a picture that represents something you would like you and your ideal partner to do together for example: walking on the beach hand in hand
- Get rid of any pictures or ornaments that represent “aloneness” and replace them with happy people together